This is how it all started…
Before the feed. Before the ping. Before the blue light in our eyes at midnight—there was a world. A real one.
I grew up in it.
No cell phones. No internet. No curated profiles or infinite scroll. Just fresh air, scraped knees, and the thrill of knocking on your best friend’s door to see if they could come out and play. We rode bikes without location tracking. We left in the morning and came back at sundown, led not by notifications but by instinct, trust, and the setting sun.
Cable TV was still new, and there wasn’t much on. A few channels, a handful of shows—and when they were over, that was it. No autoplay, no bingeing, no glowing screens dragging the night out. We turned off the TV, maybe read a little, maybe just went to sleep. The day had already been full—of adventure, imagination, and belly laughs. There were no screens in our pockets, no algorithms guiding our thoughts. When we were bored, we built things. Imagined things. We figured out who we were by doing, failing, laughing, connecting.
Friendships were made face-to-face. Our attention was ours. Our memories were stored in our bodies, not in the cloud.
And now? We’re always reachable but rarely truly present. We scroll through moments instead of living them. We’ve been told this is progress, but sometimes it feels more like erosion—slow, silent, and easy to ignore until we forget what wholeness felt like.
That feeling—that something essential is slipping through our fingers—is why I started this blog.
I’m not here to romanticize the past or reject the future. Technology, after all, brought us many gifts (including this conversation). But I believe we need to ask harder questions. To notice what we’re losing. To think critically, connect deeply, and choose how we engage.
This isn’t about going back. It’s about going forward—intentionally.
If you feel it too, you’re not alone. Let’s pause. Let’s reflect. Let’s rebuild what it means to be human in a digital world that often forgets we are.
This is how it all started. But we get to choose where it goes from here.